The Thought Pattern Decoder
The first story your mind tells is not always the truest one.
Our minds are remarkably good at creating explanations.
A delayed response becomes rejection. One mistake becomes “I always do this.” A difficult conversation becomes proof that something is wrong with us.
Before we realize it, a single thought has become a much larger story.
The Thought Pattern Decoder helps you separate what happened from the meaning your mind immediately attached to it. Sometimes the thought is accurate. Sometimes it is incomplete. Either way, understanding it gives you more choice than simply believing it.
Bring one thought that has been taking up more space than you would like.
The six reflections that follow will help you examine it from several different angles.
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Clue 014
Notice what you keep apologizing for. It may be pointing toward something you haven't understood about yourself yet.